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Shortlisted in the Cosmopolitan Influencer Awards!!!

Hello you lovely lot,

Just a quick post to say an absolutely MASSIVE thank you to everyone who nominated me for Best Sex and Relationships Influencer in the 2016 Cosmopolitan Influencer Awards! The results have come in and I have indeed been Shortlisted, which means the absolute world to me!!

At last year's Cosmopolitan Blog Awards!!

Writing this blog has helped me to influence and actively promote curiosity and open conversation when it comes to sexuality, improve people's confidence when it comes to sex, dating and our bodies, and answered many a question about the weird and wonderful way us humans work. Most of all, writing this blog has enabled me to become more in touch with myself as a sexual being, and share my experiences in order to help others, and that feeling is irreplaceable.

Once again, I can not thank you absolutely fabulous bunch! Here's to the future of Not Just Sex!

With love in sincerity,
Belle x


Hello you fabulous bunch,

It is that time of year again! What time of year? I here you call. Nomination time! The nominations for the UK Blog Awards are officially open and it would mean the absolute WORLD for me to be nominated!!

If my blog has ever inspired you, fuelled your curiosity, clarified your confusion or improved your sexual confidence- and you could spare a few minutes of your time, then please please give me Not Just Sex cheeky nomination for Best Dating Blog

You can nominate Not Just Sex by following the link: here

The information you need to put in for my blog is:

Blog URL: http://www.notjustsex.co.uk
Blogger Name: Belle Bloggs
Blogger Email: notjustsex@outlook.com

Thank you so so much!!!!

Belle x

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Cosmopolitan Influencer Awards 2016 | Nominate Not Just Sex!

Hello my fabulous readers! As you may be aware, the Cosmopolitan Influencer Awards are in their nomination stage.. Earlier this year I was shortlisted for a Cosmopolitan Blog Award and I would absolutely LOVE to try my hand at being in the running for this award too!!

At the 2016 Blog Awards
The award I would love to be on the shortlist for is the Best Sex & Relationship Influencer 2016. If you have ever found comfort or condolence in my blog, if one of my posts have ever resinated with you, if my advise has ever helped you in any way or if I have ever made you chuckle.. then it would mean the absolute WORLD to me to be nominated for this prestigious award! 

If you would like to nominate me then please do not hesitate to visit this link: http://www.cosmopolitan.co.uk/entertainment/news/a45587/cosmopolitan-influencer-awards-2016/

Thank you so so much!!

Love and Kisses,
Belle x

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