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Is it okay to use men for sex?


It took me a second before I recognised Craig. He had tapped me on the shoulder and spoke my name in a very shocked yet friendly manner. I had gone on a grand total of four dates with Craig back in January of that year, it faded out but I wasn't all too bothered about it. 

The Chase

'The chase' that odd metaphor you've never truly understood but have heard about countless times 'men like a chase'. Maybe it goes back to primal instincts, that men love to hunt, chase, play with their prey before catching and consuming every last part of it.. The thrill of the case...

The tinder date disaster: fame, fights and flaking


As the clock struck midnight and everybody kissed; strangers, boyfriends, friends - all joined in celebration. The New Year had begun. As with every other New Year I had made a few resolutions, and unlike other years , this time I was determined to stick to them. I din't go for eating healthily or starting the gym, I went for something attainable, something I actually wanted to do and should have started doing a while ago. I decided that I would start saying yes to things I would normally say no to. Number one: going on a tinder date.

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Holiday Sex: The Reality


"Oh so you're that girl' my friend smirked as I told him I'd slept with the hotel Rep when I returned from a girls holiday. He was implying that I was the type of girl who sleeps with the hotel rep on an adventurous, slutty, fast paced adventure. I wish it was that simple. His name was Luke. Perhaps it was due to his uncanny resemblance to Jack Whitehall, or maybe it was his quaint yet cocky Irish accent but one thing was for sure, I liked him instantly.

Why 'jack-rabbit' sex is NOT okay


He was undeniably cute. I had made up my mind on the first date that I would probably be going home with him on the second. I was excited to sleep with him, the type of guy that made my vagina flip every time he crossed my mind. Just the thought of him turned me on. His big strong arms pinning me down were all I could think about when he placed them, gently around my waist. His soft lips making their way down every part of my body was all I saw, when he pressed them against mine. The idea of getting him into bed was all that could fill my mind every time I left him.

Dating with Anxiety


"You're very quiet, aren't you" he said it with spite, as though he intended it to hurt. He knew I wasn't quiet, he knew me before. He didn't think to ask why it was different now.
"You're like a barn mouse, do you ever say anything?" He knew I did. He'd heard me before.